When I became pregnant, I didn't know what lay ahead of me, but feelings of trepidation, fear, and self-protection eclipsed any joy and excitement I might have felt. I always knew I wanted to have a child, but the idea of pregnancy and delivery equally terrified me because of everything I'd absorbed: horror stories of painful tests and nasty medical interventions throughout pregnancy, as well as dramatic and scary delivery tales (including from my own mother). I wanted something different, and my intuition led me to Thrive birth center where I met Taya. I'll admit I was an anxious patient, but her calm and gentle presence always put me at ease. Taya knows her stuff. She always gave me my options, and educated me on what they meant. Most importantly of all, every time I came to her with doubts (namely, "Can I do this? Do I have what it takes?") she was able to center me and remind me that I had the strength and the intelligence to do it, that my womb was a good place, and showed me that I was already a good mother. I'm tearing up as I write this because of what it meant to me to hear that during the uncertain journey that is pregnancy. There is no way I would have gotten fierce loving care like that in a traditional OB setting, and I needed it so badly, more than I knew at the time.
That is Taya's care in a nutshell: evidence-based, and fiercely loving. The care that brought me confidently through pregnancy when I had so much fear, and allowed me to deliver my healthy baby girl quickly and safely without medication when I didn't think I could, was worth so much more than the price of her care. She gave me confidence that I could be, and already was, a mother. If you are lucky enough to be considering working with Taya, let my story convince you. Her care is a gift, and you truly deserve it.
-Gillian Benary